Figure 1: The beginning of the traditional Thai greeting (Image Source: Hugh Sitton/Corbis) |
There is a famous saying that goes something like the
following: “Life imitates art, and art imitates life.” This phrase conveys the idea that often times
art and life are mirrors of each other, drawing inspiration from each
other. This notion directly relates to
today’s blog post, which was inspired by the current state of affairs the world
is involved in (social distancing due to the Covid-19 Pandemic) and several
people lamenting that they are not sure how to appropriately greet people through
not touching. These challenges present
yet another reason for why anthropology can and is so useful because while the handshake
or hug is considered the appropriate greeting among many American and Western
cultural groups it is not universal. Therefore,
this blog post will list some alternative greetings that are much more common
and appropriate in other cultural groups and that may work in place of body
contact greetings during this period (or even after, particularly if you work with individuals from different cultures!)
- In Tibet individuals greet each other by sticking out their tongue. This is considered a polite greeting to indicate that you are not the reborn, black tongued King of Tibet.
- In Thailand it is customary to greet people by putting your hands together (palms and fingers together, unclasped; see Figure 1) to your chest, bowing, and having your hands touch your face. Probably not the best option given the strict instructions by various medical professionals not to touch your face, but you can easily modify this to a bow with your hands close to but not touching your face.
- Among the Shona ethnic groups of southern Africa it is customary and polite to clap for someone in greeting. This can be a fun way to add a little positivity to greeting someone.
- Micronesians (of the South Pacific) use a simple raising of the eye brow to acknowledge someone’s presence. This may be best for those working in quiet spaces or those who are introverts.
- In China individuals actually get on their hands and knees and bow to those who are superior to them. In Japan a simple bow is all that is required regardless of status among individuals greeting each other. Asians typically do not feel comfortable touching strangers, hence why they have developed a series of non-contact greetings.
- The Kanouri tribal group in Niger shake their fists and call “Wooshay!” to those they greet. This could be a bit off putting here in the US since shaking fists has a whole other meaning here, but it could also be a fun way to release stress and anxiety at this time.
Please be aware that this post only shared the non-body
contact greetings that exist around the world.
There are several greetings that do involve body contact but are not
handshakes, including fist pumps and air kissing (the latter of which involves
contact between people by their cheeks).
Again, as medical professionals suggest not coming into direct contact
with people in order to slow and/or stop the spread of the Covid-19 virus I
have only shared those that make the most sense given this sage medical advice. Not listed here are some outdated greeting
options, such as the curtsey, which I personally would like to see come back,
but I doubt it will. Also not listed are the greetings more specific to subcultural groups, such as the Vulcan greeting that many sci fi fans are most familiar with and actually has Jewish origins (Figure 2). Whatever your
preference you have some new ideas to accommodate the current social situation
we are existing in while also maintaining important cultural and social
expectations related to greeting people.
Figure 2: Vulcan greeting through a hand gesture derived from Jewish greetings (Source: Google Images) |
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