Laura Redl
Anth 101: 1005: Introduction to Cultural
Anthropology
Across
the world all different cultures and societies practice different gender roles,
norms, and identities for females and males. The Arapesh, Mundugumor, and
Tchambui of the Papua New Guinea all exhibit different gender cultural norms
and ideals, signifying that these are not inborn characteristics but are
instead shaped through society. All three cultures differ greatly from each
other and from American norms. Through the studying and reading of the
ethnographic studies and different scholarly journals of anthropologists around
the world I learned that gender and gender roles are extremely important to
society and do not have to go by American standards to receive respect.
The
Arapesh of Papua New Guinea were people who shared the same characteristics and
ideals about each sex but were very different than the common ideals Americans
place on males and females. The Arapesh were interested in little violence, and
both sexes focused on raising the children of the village in a loving and
caring environment (Yans). This culture very much appreciated child bearing and
the challenges in raising children; their main focus was to be maternal
individuals so that their children grew up in a loving home. The identities of
each sex were very much blended and mixed to meet the same standard (Lipset).
Quick sex was feared, rape unknown, and it was uncommon that men had a desire
for other women outside their marriage because men did not have the aspiration
to lead or boast (Lipset).
The
common roles for men and women in America lie at complete opposite sides of the
spectrum. Men are supposed to be aggressive and manly in a sense of not being
afraid to get what they want and taking initiative. Women, on the other hand,
are supposed to be fragile and nurturing. The contrast in Arapesh and America
even made an impact on the two sexes studying them, Margaret Mead and Reo
Fortune. Mead greatly appreciated the love and admiration for child bearing,
whereas Fortune got upset with the culture and refused to agree with their
maternal expectation, saying that the men were actually naturally violent
(Sanday). This is an example of projecting our expectations and ideals on
another culture because we want to believe the American ways are the most
correct.
The Mundugumor of Papua New Guinea
were the complete opposite of the Arapesh and demonstrated an appreciation for
being warlike, had many wives, and despised child bearing and the raising
children (Yans). This culture was dominated by the men and men held the central
role and example for what both sexes should exhibit. The men were supposed to
be violent, fearless, and fierce, influencing the role for women to encourage
fighting and not want to be nurturing or care for their children (Lipset).
Again, we are faced with a culture that blends the two roles for men and women,
whereas in America we aim for men and women to have very different gender
identities and values. In Mundugumor, children were annoyances and child
bearing was despised, men hated when their wives would become pregnant, and
women did not want to raise them in a loving manner, causing the children to
learn quickly they must be tough (Lipset). The reason that the child bearing
was so despised was because the women and multiple wives of these men were
their main source of labor, causing men to fight to have more wives and not
wanting them to get pregnant and delay work (Lipset). This patrilineal society
and use of women as workers causes maternal instincts and norms to be
unappreciated and unwanted. Men were the head of the society and women wanted
to please them influencing them to also resent child bearing and causing them
to resent the children and being unloving. In America we have a better
appreciation for child bearing because we realize we need women to have
children in order to survive and therefore place more recognition on women and
maternal values.
The Tchambui of Papua New Guinea
demonstrated the opposite gender norms for men and women that Americans have.
The women were very businesslike, handled finances, and dressed the men and
children, but the men were catty, liked shopping, and were not aggressive at
all (Yans). The women held the most important jobs in the society because they
took what was thought to be the main job, trading. Without the women trading
the society would not succeed or survive so men had to be very appreciative and
grateful for these women. The women held the real position of power in the
society which meant that they were the dominate figures (Lipset). The men were
always gossiping and suspicious of each other, they had no desire to be
aggressive and were constantly trying to give the women what they wanted
(Lipset). This is the opposite of American gender norms because the women are
supposed to be the gossipy and unaggressive sex, and the males are supposed to
be the breadwinners and leaders. The men are expected to get the jobs in
society and the women want to please the men.
The views of the different societies
and gender roles in the Papua New Guinea were so different than the views of Americans
because the men’s and women’s roles were all held at different levels of need.
The women in the Arapesh were seen as dominant because they were the ones who
could keep the society surviving and so their nurturing and loving roles were
very much appreciated and desired. The men wanted to be like the women because
they were so grateful for having them there to have children. The Mundugumor favored
the men because they help the highest positions in society in their extensive
trade network and leading the society. Women wanted to work for men and cause
them to be successful, so they hated when they had to have children and
resented raising their children. The Tchambui of the Papua New Guinea had
opposite sex roles of Americans. The women were the breadwinners and would
provide for the family yet the men were suspicious and catty. The women
dominated and controlled daily resources, so men wanted to please the women and
keep them happy.
By taking a deeper look at the
different societies views on gender roles and identities I was able to
understand that females and males do not have innate norms or values for the
characteristics each sex should exhibit. If so many variations were possible,
then sex roles were not inborn and masculine and feminine behavior was
determined by culture (Yans). The roles of men and women can be shaped by
whatever their roles are in society and how valued their roles seem to those in
the culture. I gained a deeper understanding that both gender roles and both
characteristics of men and women can be valued and it does not have to be
dependent on their sex. Women can act as Americans might think would to be
manly and be highly appreciated and men can act as we might think of as girly
and remain important to the society. Men and women do not need to act in a way
our society deems “correct” in order to be a success and appreciated.
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Mead's Sepik Triptych and Its Ethnographic Critics." Anthropological
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Sanday, Peggy Reeves. "Margaret Mead's View of Sex Roles in
Her Own and Other Societies." American Anthropological Association 82.2
(1980): 340-48. Print.
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